Place Luxembourg, hanging with my good dutch friend who is visiting brussels for a day. Chance to hang out, catch up, and do what we love most.

It always sets me on a very good mood when I’m with people I appreciate. This has an effect to my behavior towards people, and my dating too.

We’re walking here and there chatting, and there I see her:

MA-GNI-FI-CENT.

Frackles! ( I love frackles ) white skin, the greenest eyes EVER, long blonde hair, dressed sexy but not slutty. Reminded me some of K.

I think about it for a while and try to hear them talk..

GERMANS !

I take the initiative – as my friend is rather shy – and talk.

I start with asking them if they’re German – and the answer is positive (of course!)

NEWBIES LESSON no1: TRY TO ASK A FIRST QUESTION WHERE THE ANSWER IS YES. It’s purely psychological. Sets in a good mood.

She is definitely out of my league, I am falling for her each second she looks at me. But I don’t panic. You know she’s hot – I know she’s hot – She knows she’s hot, but I keep it down. No offensive moves, no desperate questions or requests, just getting to know each other. Ask her questions, let her talk. That’s what I did.

As we talked she was coming closer and closer to me, although I didn’t

LESSON no2: Let her come to you, don’t go to her.

She seemed tipsy – and flirty. Was it because of the alcohol? We’ll soon find out.

I still think she is WAY OUT OF MY LEAGUE.

As the conversation goes, she mentions she has a party next weekend at her place and invites me. I get her e-mail address.

I was tempted to mail her TONIGHT (I Know, old me!) but my friend talked me out of it. Thank god.

I’ll mail her sometime tomorrow. Besides, I don’t think she’s staying here for long. It’s either a yes or a no.

But boy how cute she is. I couldn’t even look her directly in the eyes.

SO EAGER TO MAIL HER AND SEE WHAT’S GOING ON ! Tell me what to do!! commeeent

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