You can’t change who you are. That’s one thing.
The other thing before that is: Find out who you are.
As time goes by, I think I am finally getting a clear picture of who I am. It helps in order avoids mistakes of the past and make wiser choices for the future.
And who might that be? I noticed that in the last posts I described myself as “Ted” from How I Met Your Mother, “Sworn Bachelor” – in the previous post – , and the list goes on (I don’t even remember).
I’d say that despite the massive panic attack this conclusion brings me, I’m definitely a Ted. This TV persona describes SO ACCURATELY so many aspects of my character:
- I build romances out of nothing and I get completely passionate about them
- I make jokes about long-term commitment in relationships which haven’t even started
- I am always searching for “the one”. Everything else is useless, waste of time, depressing.
- I am making lists in my head about stupid pro’s and con’s of my potential girlfriend.
- I try to go crazy after breakups only soon realizing it’s not really my style.
and the list goes on …
So, Who’s my Robin ? …
